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I had this question ask in a comment so I wanted to answer it. How do you feel about your son being bisexual? Well honest all I want for him is to be happy don’t matter to me if that’s with a boy or a girl. I don’t ever want him to have his heart broke but I know someday that will happen. 

Would I rather have him totally straight I would have to answer yes. Being gay myself and going down that hard road I wouldn’t want him to go down it. I know things are different now for gays than when I was growing up but still I still remember Matthew Shepard like it was yesterday I remember the look on his parents faces. I remember Ryan Skipper and it scares me to think that nothing has really changed.

So if my boy was totally straight yeah I would feel much better I know things still could happen but not for him being straight. But my son isn’t straight he is what I call bisexual he like to say he’s sexual cause he don’t like labels. One thing I think is good for a parent is no matter what your kid is you need to talk with them about being safe.

Most parents don’t like this topic and most don’t talk to there kids about but it’s a must. Most parents like to think there kids are not doing it come on people think about when you were a teen nothing has change there. Trust me your kids are doing it and if there not there thinking about it. Now a days kids think if they don’t have intercourse then it’s not sex.

Oral sex they think is something totally different so you see why you need to have the talk. I can see if your kid is gay if they told you this and you don’t know what to say there are books they need the talk maybe more than straight kids. So how do I feel about my son being bisexual? I am ok with it I love him no matter what and he knows that. Whoever he picks in life as long as there good to him them I will accept them. They hurt him in anyway I will be there to put my foot in there ass I know but it’s the dad in me.

Remember I am open to questions also any advice I might be able to give. I do want to say thanks for the comments and advice from yesterdays post. I know I have to do something and do it quick your right it’s not good for either of us. This weekend I am going to sit him down and tell him. I am waiting for the weekend cause the shift he works and I just think it would be better doing it on the weekend give him time to get his head back together before he goes back to work. I’ll keep you updated on this.   

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